tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76654978137053754812024-02-07T23:35:36.031-06:00from Ainsley, with lovefashion and design, with a sunny state of mind.From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.comBlogger726125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-27752669519242919862013-10-23T08:30:00.000-05:002013-10-23T08:30:00.832-05:00Why I Am Now A QuitterSitting down to do this was hard.<br />
As in, so super very hard.<br />
This blog feels like an old boyfriend who's conjuring up some weird feelings. Even now, my words are lost as I sit with my fingers on this keyboard. But I guess a good start is the beginning. So here goes.<br />
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<b>I quit blogging intentionally</b>.<br />
There, I said it. I quit. I did not "let things get away from me" or "lack inspiration." I'm still lighting it up on my <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/ainsleysusan/boards/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a> and <a href="http://instagram.com/asrogers" target="_blank">Instagram</a> daily, so there's definitely free time in my schedule for some hobbies. I did not go through a mental breakdown, so I'm still the same me that wrote here daily for years. But something did change.<br />
I began to feel as if my own <b>real</b> life did not live up to the ones others' created in blogworld.<br />
<i>Which is, of course, a bunch of bull. </i><br />
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It happened pretty quickly, actually, and since I'm the queen of snap decisions, it should come of no surprise that I deliberately made the decision to stop. One conversation triggered an entire train of thoughts that couldn't be stopped for days. And boom—I quit blogging. You see, I began to feel that I wasn't living a truly authentic life because of this here little blog. No, there were no false accounts featured or questionable circumstances. But my quality of life began to change a little. Many a sweet moment was missed because I was busy framing a photo for the blog. Writing wasn't the whimsical creative outlet it had been all my life because I was too busy keeping up with the Joneses creating "chic" content. I was blogging for some sort of desired life and not for the life that I had. I began to question what my goals were, where my focus was, what my vision for my future was. And long story shot, I felt like a big ole fraud.<br />
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I know now that I'm not a fraud, I'm just not a blogger. I'm a writer, which is why my best work here has been the intimate, soul-deep topics I just let spill onto the pages—not the Top Ten Shifts for Your Office Christmas Party <i>(in my defense, that was not a real feature)</i>. And while I am very jealous of the lucrative career that many a blogger has made of her hobby, I am not that girl. My blog is not my business, it's my hobby. I do not live a perfectly-styled life with white linen couches and sparkling marble counter tops, but I do life a beautiful life in a 1930's two-story home packed tight with five 20 something's and a goldendoodle. My husband does not come home every night with a bouquet of peonies that I promptly place in a crystal vase on the dining room table, but my boyfriend does call every night from Memphis so we can talk through the three hours between us, and I do buy roses for my room every week at Trader Joe's. Unlike real bloggers, my life does not deserve to be pinned on Pinterest. But it deserves every bit of attention and thanksgiving that I have, which is why I quit blogging. To give it, and the people in it, just that.<br />
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So I've been in somewhat of a writing rehab the last four and a half months, trying to determine what this outlet actually was. And I guess this is the tenth step—acceptance. <i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">(I'm not even sure if acceptance is the 10th step, but it is in my program so go with it.)</span></i> My life has changed and I like it that way, so this has to change, as well. My blog will not teach you how to style your bedroom using repurposed milk crates or put together the perfect outfit in under $20. But it might show you a new recipe that<b> I actually cooked</b>, or recommend a new yoga class<i> (because that's a new pastime now, too)</i> and, more often than not, daydream about what my life is becoming. Because it is becoming something big and beautiful and totally different than what I once imagined. Which I am so grateful for.<br />
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So I'm taking back ownership of this space. Comparison is the thief of joy and my joy ain't for the taking. If you've emailed me these past few months, I'm sorry for not responding. I simply didn't know what to say. And if you've left comments, well, now you know where I've been. I'd like to come back and write here, and I plan to and I will, but it won't be like it was. But that is the point.<br />
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This is an authentic space where I'm just daydreaming believing one day at a time without agenda. I do hope I inspire and encourage you a little, because I live an inspired life.<br />
I'm so nervous to publish this. Here goes...<br />
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{<a href="http://www.pinterest.com/pin/271060471295657983/" target="_blank">1</a>,<a href="http://www.pinterest.com/pin/271060471295628404/" target="_blank"> 2</a>, <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/pin/271060471295610172/" target="_blank">3</a>, 4, <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/pin/271060471295610172/" target="_blank">5</a>}From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-88311744452385668842013-05-23T15:42:00.004-05:002013-05-23T15:42:58.152-05:00I Interrupt Your Regular Scheduled ProgrammingStop. Collaborate and listen.<br />
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Your girl is moving. As in, next week. As in, wow I have a lot to pack in a little bit of time. And a lot of people to say goodbye to. As in, <i>wow this is really fast</i>— but here I go! The 'ole blog is also getting a facelift. So I hope you'll be patient while we have a little hustle hustle around here towards some upward moving change! I need just a little teeny tiny break of blogging while I tie up all these loose ends. I know you understand.<br />
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I hope, though, you'll<a href="http://pinterest.com/ainsleysusan/boards/" target="_blank"> follow me on Pinterest</a> for the next week or so. Because I'm good at that. Also<a href="http://instagram.com/asrogers" target="_blank"> on Insta</a>—I'm good at that, too.<br />
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I'll catch ya on the flip side, with lots of news to share.<br />
<i>xoxo</i><br />
<i>Daily gratitude: Hustle and facelifts.</i>From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-22517605861578022212013-05-17T13:13:00.000-05:002013-05-17T13:13:31.395-05:00Happy {Big News} WeekendI'm trying not to think about the fact that though we were prepared and ready the moment tickets went on sale today, we did not, <i>in fact</i>, get Justin Timberlake tickets in Nashville yet again before they all sold out. I choose to focus on how stunningly beautiful this day is. It is taking every ounce of willpower in my body to finish up the last of my to-do list before hitting those beautiful beaches... for what will be the last time for quite some time.<br />
<i>Why, you ask?</i><br />
Well, big news from the Sunshine State-- <b>I'm moving to Nashville</b>!<br />
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I have been bursting to talk about this because this city is, <i>in fact</i>, one of my very favorites in the country and I'm thrilled at the opportunity to make it my new home. So, pull out those moving boxes. Get the label maker geared up-- this girl is making a move, <i>again</i>.<br />
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But until then, I've got sweet Dana in town this weekend for some R&R and another two weeks of tying up lose ends on the Emerald Coast before I head north to Tennessee. A few things we old college roomies have on our agenda plus some things that have caught my eye for this week's Friday Finds <br />
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<li>As I <strike>speak</strike> type, Dana is whipping us up<a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471295029622/" target="_blank"> this </a>to fully promote beach bum mentality. Reviews to come if you're nice.</li>
<li>I just received<a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471294992876/" target="_blank"> these</a> from Zappos and I give them two thumbs up as a chic daytime sandal. Bonus points for the super sale!</li>
<li>Speaking of sale, Guilt just put all my beloved Susana Monaco dresses on super sale as well. I snatched<a href="http://www.gilt.com/sale/women/everyday-dress-9329/product/171429662-susana-monaco-magdalena-pleated-front-dress" target="_blank"> this one</a> up, but they've got some great options if you're looking for a sexy shift + open back cut-outs like I mentioned <a href="http://fromainsleywithlove.blogspot.com/2013/05/summer-shift-crush.html" target="_blank">here</a>.</li>
<li>I'm obsessed with<a href="http://www.positivelypositive.com/" target="_blank"> this site</a>, and<a href="http://www.positivelypositive.com/2013/05/17/progress-vs-perfection/" target="_blank"> this article on Perfectionism</a>-- <b>whoa</b>. Go read them all,<i> like every article</i>, and feel well. You're welcome.</li>
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Sp, wanna chat Nashville with me? Got some advice, somewhere for me to go, someone for me to meet <span style="font-size: x-small;"><i>(or a job that needs filled?)</i></span>? I hope so. Shoot me an email <a href="mailto:ainsleysusan@gmail.com" target="_blank">here</a>.<br />
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Until then, Happy Weekend!<br />
<i>xoxo </i><br />
<i>Daily gratitude: new beginnings and opportunities! </i>From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-40552787452196661402013-05-15T16:42:00.003-05:002013-05-15T16:42:46.703-05:00Summer Shift CrushEvery season, I get a fashion crush. Sometimes it's an off-the-wall trend I'm dying to try, and occasionally it's an oldie-but-goodie I'm ready to bring back. And this summer, I want the shift back in my wardrobe.<br />
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There's something so refreshingly classic about a chic shift and, with cut-outs, shorter lengths and embellishments, they <b>aren't</b> just for the office anymore. After cutting <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471294992516/" target="_blank">my hair like this</a> on Monday, I'm now convinced that my closet is in desperate need of a few flirty mini dress shifts to show off the shoulders—and I love the idea of short wavy hair and a super sleek look. When those summer temps get, <i>quite literally</i>, sultry, throwing on a shift is a simple fix for a cool look.<br />
A few of my faves I've been contemplating as of late:<br />
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<li><a href="http://www.anthropologie.com/anthro/product/clothes-dresses/27740331.jsp?cm_mmc=CJ-_-Affiliates-_-rewardStyle-_-11292623" target="_blank">This one</a> is quite the show stopper—and that back is to die for.</li>
<li>It's a well known fact that I love the versatility of a Susana Monaco dress, and the peek-a-boo sides on <a href="http://www.revolveclothing.com/DisplayProduct.jsp?product=SUSA-WD1091&c=" target="_blank">this shift</a> keep it sassy.</li>
<li>And speaking of cut-outs, I'm in love with both the <a href="http://us.asos.com/Glamorous-A-Line-Mini-Dress-with-Cut-Out/zt3p3/?iid=2830268&xr=2&r=1&mk=VOID&mporgp=L0dsYW1vcm91cy9HbGFtb3JvdXMtQS1MaW5lLU1pbmktRHJlc3Mtd2l0aC1DdXQtT3V0L1Byb2Qv" target="_blank">white and red options of this A-line shift</a>. And at this price, it can't be beat.</li>
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<i>Daily gratitude: that new feeling that comes with summer.</i></div>
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<i>xoxo</i></div>
From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-85657830121614904732013-05-14T16:29:00.001-05:002013-05-14T16:29:28.833-05:00Tuesday Treats: This Article Right HereYa'll. <a href="http://www.positivelypositive.com/2013/05/14/we-are-what-we-do-not-what-we-say/" target="_blank">This article right here</a>.<br />
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Ya know how sometimes you're thankful for those older siblings/tough love best friend<span style="font-size: x-small;"><i> </i><span style="font-size: small;">believers</span></span>/ motivating mentors who give you the swift kick in the behind that you've subconcioulsy been longing for?<br />
Well, consider<a href="http://www.positivelypositive.com/2013/05/14/we-are-what-we-do-not-what-we-say/" target="_blank"> this article</a> it for your week.<br />
<b>And you're welcome.</b><br />
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<i>Daily gratitude: good news and kicks in the behind.</i><br />
<i>xoxo</i>From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-35127615248093280472013-05-13T11:19:00.005-05:002013-05-13T11:19:54.777-05:00Monday Mantra + Simple WordsToday I am bursting with things to say. But my words are not enough right now, it seems.<br />
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After an impromptu absence last week, I've had lots of things brewing. Good things. And while I still can't talk details just yet, my heart is full and my path is led.<br />
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Speaking of, I've been reading a somewhat unconventional devotional book by Beth Moore in hopes of qualming my sometimes oppressive perfectionist thoughts. I really dug deep this weekend, and felt the message moving me almost immediately. I'm going to say very little more about this read right now, in hopes of discovering more before I turn you that way. But the moral of this short Monday story is that I was reminded how lucky we all are that <i>our imperfections don't separate us from His grace</i>.<br />
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Sure, most of us have known this quite some time. But this simple little fact is oftentimes so elementary to our faith that, though it is a cornerstone of who we are, we rarely take the time anymore to reflect on it. And I'm not sure about you, but I am <b>so glad to remember it</b>. And I thought you might be too. So because of that, my mantra for us all this week:<br />
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Here's to another inspired week!</div>
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<i>Daily gratitude: moving messages.</i></div>
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From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-82978413881009558492013-05-01T12:13:00.001-05:002013-05-01T12:14:32.270-05:00Hello May + Resolution<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Bam.<b> Happy Ma</b>y. All month long, ladies. Reminded to you by Justin himself.<br />
But seriously:<br />
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I greet this month with ecstatic joy for many reasons. First, there's more big change on the agenda that I'm thrilled about-- <i>but more on that later</i>. Second, April wasn't my month. Of course, I had a good ole time and the weather was beautiful and life was sunny, <i>as usual</i>. But I had some real hang-ups this month. Hang-ups I should have let go of, should have not tried to handle myself, should have exhaled and given them up to Someone much bigger.</div>
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You see, I am a <b>worrier</b>. As in, my thoughts sometimes get so far away from me that before I know it I'll be worrying about getting an incurable disease that stemmed from a stomach ache. <a href="http://fromainsleywithlove.blogspot.com/2013/04/happy-monday-alone-time.html" target="_blank">I hinted at this a bit on Monday</a>, but I'm talking about it a little more in-depth today because, to be honest, I got <b>so</b> many emails and comments from you after Monday's post that I have an inkling there are a few others of you out there with the same problem. So I'm admitting I have this problem. I preach lots of carpe diem, no-day-but-today talk. And I sincerely, truly believe there is reason for celebration and joy in <i>all</i> circumstances. But does that keep the knots from my stomach or the crazy thoughts from swirling in my head the moment a situation arises that I can't see the outcome of? Absolutely not.</div>
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And I have a real problem with letting those moments go and really giving them up, even though I think that I <i>(probably, most likely)</i> am. I've been a worrier since I was a child--a not-so-great characteristic that my mother is constantly trying to break me of. And even though I have tons of experience with worry not changing a thing, and really only adding stress or anxiety to my days, I keep doing it. For years, I have simply thought, <i>I can't help it</i>.</div>
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He tapped on my soul and said, "Ainsley, why do you do this? Let <b><i>Me</i></b>. I'll show you the way." And I was calm. For the first time in a month, my anxiety and fear was overpowered with a sense of peace in that<b> though I don't know the outcome, He does</b>. So, for May, I'm going to<br />
Consciously<br />
Deliberately<br />
Intentionally<br />
Focus on letting Him deal with all the outcomes I can't see. No more nervous stomach, what-if thoughts, damning outcomes in my brain-- <b>I'm in rehab for worrying, friends.</b><br />
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We just got real here, I realize. But do any of you have a sure-fire combat plan for worry?<br />
<i>Daily gratitude: Revelation and baby steps to change.</i><br />
<i>xoxo</i><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">{<a href="http://pinterest.com/ainsleysusan/everyday-lovely/" target="_blank">sources</a>}</span></div>
From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-25006589009825588662013-04-30T11:53:00.000-05:002013-04-30T11:53:55.457-05:00Tuesday Treats: Fiesta-WorthyFor some reason, I really love Cinco de Mayo. I think it's because I equate it with summer-- sitting on a patio somewhere with friends, sipping margaritas and dipping into fresh salsa in the sunny weather. Sounds like a dream.<br />
It also makes me want to order some cheese dip right now.<br />
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Last year, bad beach weather literally put a damper on my Cinco de Mayo plans. So I'm pretty pumped to be traveling to Memphis for<a href="http://www.thebealestreetmusicfestival.com/" target="_blank"> a music festival </a>this weekend where the forecast is calling for sunny skies, which means I may just get to sip that margarita on a patio after all.<br />
Despite the fact that I'm not throwing my own fiesta, here are a few little tips to take with you whatever your Cinco de Mayo plans may be! <br />
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<li>While I love a reason to celebrate a holiday, I don't love undoing all the work I've done during the week at the gym and making healthy choices in the kitchen.<a href="http://www.sheknows.com/food-and-recipes/articles/991479/tips-for-healthy-eating-at-a-mexican-restaurant" target="_blank"> These</a> are a few great tips on not breaking the calorie bank while you're getting your fiesta on-- or just leaving extra room for cheese dip and margaritas!</li>
<li>Speaking of cheese dip, if you're staying in to celebrate,<a href="http://community.tasteofhome.com/community_forums/f/30/t/174216.aspx" target="_blank"> this recipe for queso blanco</a> upstood my critical Mexican cheese dip taste buds when we gave it a whirl.</li>
<li>What would Cinco de Mayo be without a margarita? Yeah, I'm not sure either. Which is why I hope to try at least one of these four flavored skinny margarita recipes <a href="http://www.familyfreshmeals.com/2013/04/the-best-skinny-margarita-recipes.html" target="_blank">featured here</a>.</li>
<li>And of course, what to wear, what to wear? I've linked to<a href="http://us.asos.com/countryid/2/River-Island-Misha-Mexican-Dress/zv9eg/?iid=2847112&cid=2238&sh=0&pge=3&pgesize=20&sort=-1&clr=White&mporgp=L1JpdmVyLUlzbGFuZC9SaXZlci1Jc2xhbmQtTWlzaGEtTWV4aWNhbi1EcmVzcy9Qcm9kLw..&MID=35719&affid=2135&WT.tsrc=Affiliate&siteID=QFGLnEolOWg-4GdUBW0bsEXtRFl.IEYY3Q" target="_blank"> this dress I'm dying over before</a>, but it seems pretty perfect for a Mexican-inspired fete. Or,<a href="http://www.tobi.com/product/47885-minkpink-southwest-tank-dress?color_id=63006" target="_blank"> this cute cotton frock</a> <span style="font-size: x-small;"><i>(for quite the steal)</i></span> is fiesta-worthy, tool. Whatever it may be, finish it all off with a coat of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0034E32BS/ref=pd_lpo_k2_dp_sr_2?pf_rd_p=1535523722&pf_rd_s=lpo-top-stripe-1&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_i=B003V774PS&pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_r=0YMCGY77WF8KQ14BYK8G" target="_blank">OPI's Strawberry Margarita</a>.</li>
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What else do you do to celebrate a casual Cinco de Mayo on the fly?<br />
<i>Daily gratitude: New beginnings and reasons to celebrate.</i><br />
<i>xoxo</i>From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-9906170190644852792013-04-29T13:34:00.002-05:002013-04-29T13:34:37.107-05:00Happy Monday + Alone TimeWhew, I spent a lot of time alone this weekend. And I can always tell when I do that because I begin interpreting myself <i>(which is hardly ever the best idea)</i>. So this weekend I sat down with myself for a while to explore the fact that I am a chronic decision maker. I suffer from literally agonizing over decisions, and even once they are made—whether they be wrong or right—beating myself up over the one that I made. And<i> trust me</i>, I've made my fair share of both. I'm also guilty of trying to make them alone, but working on that one day at a time. Because I need a lot of help in making them—big help, from Someone that sees more than my immediate situation. You see, us chronic decision makers view every decision as a big deal—we also have a hard time digesting how even the worst decisions can line up for good. Which is sometimes, if we're being really honest here, why I have such a hard time reading this when it pops up every so often:<br />
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<b>Nothing?</b> That's a hard idea for me to digest. No matter what happens, nothing can stop His plan if I'm walking in His light—no matter what's been done or what's escaped. No matter what I do, if He is my light then nothing can interrupt that plan. <i>Repentance, forgiveness, and grace</i>.<br />
And guess what? It's not even an idea. It's t.r.u.t.h. <b>The</b> truth.<br />
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So there's no reason to hide behind your have-nots, should-havs, what-ifs, regrets, and guilt. Once they're done, they're done, and if you keep looking up, you're headed in the right direction. Because <b>nothing can stop God's plan for your life.</b><br />
<i>Happy Monday!</i><br />
<i>Daily gratitude: <b>Persistence </b>in Grace.</i>From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-49828826641664223912013-04-26T12:26:00.004-05:002013-04-26T12:26:59.689-05:00Happy {Working—Insert Sadface} WeekendThis Friday is unlike the rest because due to my staycation last week, I'll be hitting those working hours <i>all </i>weekend long.<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span">The skies are clear and the temps are a fabulous seventy degrees, so it's hard to be less than content though you're to-do list may be a mile long like mine. And after some deep thoughts and talking the topic to death, I'm prepping for a <b>big</b> announcement coming soon that I've been contemplating and praying about for quite some time. <i>Stay tuned</i>.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span">In the meantime, it wouldn't be Friday without a few Fabulous Finds, so without further adieu, what caught my attention this week:</span></div>
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<li>Preach it sister—<a href="http://paloma81.blogspot.com/2013/04/top-3-strategies-for-success.html" target="_blank">Melanie Duncan outlines her top three strategies for success </a><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">(I like success)</span></i> as gathered from her entrepreneurial clients. Making a mental note to remember these starting<b> now</b>.</li>
<li>And speaking of entrepreneurs, I was smitten upon reading <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471294919815/" target="_blank">this love note to them</a>.</li>
<li>Whitney has a way of speaking cold hard truth in the funniest fashion<i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"> (and they tend to speak to me <b>alot</b>)</span></i>, and I think we all have a<a href="http://whitneybiber.blogspot.com/2013/04/stay-humble.html" target="_blank"> "flight" we should remind ourselves to stay humble about</a>.</li>
<li>My mother would kill me and my father would groan but I almost impulse bought one of these <a href="http://thebeautydepartment.com/2013/04/water-color-hydrating-hair-masque/" target="_blank">watercolor hydrating masques </a>that turn your hair a hot hue for 2-5 days. How much fun for a music festival or halloween? But I seem to remember learning my lesson with semi-permanent hair dye once...</li>
<li>Lastly, I. am. addicted. To <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471294917700/" target="_blank">these</a>. Every morning. And I'll be posting my twist on the recipe next week for you to try out as well <i>(keywords: <b>sweet</b> additions).</i></li>
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That about does it. We have a standing date here on Monday. Happy weekend, dears!</div>
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<i>Daily gratitude: More leaps of faith and opportunity.</i></div>
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<i>xoxo</i></div>
From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-831068937448180322013-04-25T13:17:00.000-05:002013-04-25T13:33:31.201-05:00Mingle Mingle Mini and More: Kelly Wynne<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I'm always amazed when young gutsy girls do what it takes to accomplish big dreams.<br />
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Enter Kelly White, the designer behind <a href="http://kellywynne.com/" target="_blank">Kelly Wynne</a>. Kelly was a sorority sister with me at Ole Miss, and I was blown away when a mutual friend tuned me in to her <a href="http://instagram.com/shopkellywynne" target="_blank">Instagram account</a> to show me what this budding new designer was up to lately <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small; font-style: italic;">(thanks for that, Camille.) </span><span class="Apple-style-span">And trust me when I say you're going to want to keep an eye on this line, because I give it no time at all to blow up big.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span">I immediately emailed Kelly to see what was going on behind this new line, and she sat down to answer a few questions I had about Kelly Wynne for the blog—that <i>just so happened </i>to coincide with the spring launch of her new collection.</span></div>
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<i></i>Read on to see what this Cinderella story is all about and how you can get your hands on one of these lustworthy handbags asap <i>(spoiler alert: trunk show in Oxford on Saturday!)</i>:<br />
<a name='more'></a><i>So, first things first. What was the initial idea behind Kelly Wynne?</i><br />
You know those dreams people have growing up that seem really unobtainable, and are most likely just a dream? This was mine. I love all accessories because it's the best way to jazz up an outfit! After working in PR for 3 years, I couldn't let go of the idea of designing my own collection. I began researching, sketching, and meeting with various professionals in the fashion industry. One thing led to another, and my dream of designing handbags became reality. I finally decided to go for it! <br />
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<i>What was your unique aesthetic concept for the line?</i><br />
I wanted to start a fresh and contemporary handbag line with a mid-range price point inspired by the stingray look. I love stingray, but it can be very pricey. So I started developing unique printed leathers that mimic exotics in a luxe and eye-catching way. There are two printed styles in my first collection, the Lizard which is comprised of repeating dots and the Serpentine which is a splattered look, both on printed suede. Then, my logo is a "W" and "K" turned sideways sitting on top. Wynne is my middle name. When deciding what to call the brand, I just thought Kelly Wynne flowed. I was a graphic designer before this venture, which has definitely been helpful creating the logo and any marketing materials we have needed. I wanted a subtle logo which I feel like I accomplished because I have many people asking me what the logo means. We have more ideas in the works for expanding this logo in future collections, and I can't wait to show you our next developments!<br />
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<i>What was the process from going from Kelly Wynne as an idea to Kelly Wynne as an actual line?</i><br />
I started out by running to fabric and leather shops on my lunch break in my previous job. I bought all sorts of fabric and played around with designs at night. My dream was to produce leather handbags (not fabric), but I had no idea how to begin! I took a few sewing classes, bought a sewing machine and made my first bag out of fabric. Then, I met with local seamstresses to see if they could make a leather bag for me. It's hard finding someone that works with leather. You have to have special machinery. I remember celebrating with my girlfriends after I thought I had found the perfect person for the job. A few days later, I asked the lady if she would come down on her pricing since I was going to be producing "a lot of bags". She basically told me in a very nice way to go elsewhere. I kept meeting with local seamstresses, I developed a business plan, and I talked to as many designers in the industry as possible—just to learn how they got started. It turns out that all the research was <b>so</b> helpful!<br />
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<i>So it didn't all go smoothly at first?</i><br />
It turned around! After many disappointing meetings, I kept fighting. I was constantly in prayer about finding the right people to work with. I just wouldn't give up! I finally happened upon my manufacturer who I am working with now. We are a great team. All it takes is persistence and <u>curiosity</u>. I would call different leather suppliers and ask who they ship their leather to in the area, and of course the Internet is a wealth of information. You can find just about anything if you dig deep enough!<br />
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<i>So how many pieces does the first collection include?</i> <i>Which is your favorite? </i><br />
There are 6 different styles and 23 different colors. It's so hard to pick a favorite because I love them all for different reasons! <b>But</b>, if I must choose... I would say:<br />
The Here's To You Hobo in stone white serpentine<br />
The Mingle Mingle Mini in the stone platinum lizard<br />
And the Paint the Town Tote, in either the stone white lizard or the black white lizard<br />
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I love all the clutches, as well. Oh, I forgot about the Pop the Champagne Shoulder style—this is my signature style and I love <b>all </b>the colors. This is like asking which is your favorite child! I always told myself I would never produce anything I didn't love. So you will see me wearing all of my bags.<br />
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<i>Anything else extra-special you consider of the Kelly Wynne line?</i><br />
Oh yes. The Kelly Wynne handbags are handcrafted by artisans in New York City, and it has been the most amazing experience working with suppliers in the US. I love knowing exactly who I am dealing with on a day-to-day basis. I can't imagine trying to accomplish my goals overseas. My favorite part about this whole process has been meeting so many different people. Of course, I face daily challenges and am always problem-solving, but I am satisfied with my ultimate decision to have the bags produced in the US. I definitely have a great team working to make these bags beautiful for all the fabulous women that want to carry a Kelly Wynne.<br />
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<i>If you could see one famous woman with a Kelly Wynne bag, who would it be? </i><br />
Faith Hill because she's confident, classy, stylish, and feminine... and married to my favorite country artist!<br />
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<i>Do you have advice for budding designers? Any wise words, tips, or tricks? Things you wish you had known?</i><br />
Fear seems to be one of the main things that holds people back from pursuing their dream. Yes, it's scary. I'm still scared, but you only live once, so why let that hold you back?! It's very hard starting your own business—much harder than I ever imagined. But I absolutely love it! <b>Especially </b>since I didn't study fashion—everything is new to me right now. So, my advice would be: Don't be embarrassed to ask dumb questions. Be curious and ask as many questions as possible. It truly is the best way to learn. Be persistent and never give up—it's cliche, but it's so true. There will definitely be days you want to give up. I remember I got so upset over a little D-ring because I couldn't find the right fit—silly to think about now. But I was at a breaking point. Don't let those breaking points get to you!<br />
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<i>What is one thing people would be surprised to know about you as a designer?</i><br />
I sketch life size handbags on paper and cut them out to see how they look first!<br />
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<i>So what are five items you can't live without and why?</i><br />
1. My laptop & the Adobe Creative Suites—Illustrator is my favorite!<br />
2. My Magic Bullet Blender for my daily smoothies. It makes cleanup so easy!<br />
3. My sound machine. I have to have noise to sleep at night.<br />
4. My daily devotional —<i>Jesus Calling </i><br />
5. My King Charles pup, Fonzi. He is my baby!!<br />
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<i>Any parting words for readers?</i><br />
<i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;">My whole motto is "Dare to be fabulous." I want women to be confident and feel fabulous when carrying a Kelly Wynne. So</span></i>—<b>Dare to be fabulous! xo </b><br />
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The Kelly Wynne team is taking pre-orders now, and you can email Kelly directly for inquires at shop@kellywynne.com. Her ultra-fab website is set to launch May 6 and people will be able to purchase online at <a href="http://kellywynne.com/">kellywynne.com</a>.<br />
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<b>But</b>, for all you lucky Mississippi gals, Kelly Wynne is having a trunk show <u>this weekend </u>at everyone's favorite boutique, <a href="http://shopcicada.com/" target="_blank">Cicada</a>. Stop by all day Friday or Saturday browse this beautiful new line. And be sure to pick me up the Mingle Mingle Mini or Cloud 9 Clutch in white serpentine preferably while you're at it, because I'm dying to add them to my accessories collection!<br />
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From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-72899080892140349672013-04-24T14:54:00.002-05:002013-04-24T14:57:02.426-05:00Book Club: Summer ReadingIt's been quite some time since I've done one of my reading list compilations. And, truth be told, it's because I haven't spent much time with my ole library as of late. But all it took was a few beach days over this past weekend to realize those summer days are calling for books galor, and my Amazon shopping cart is now overflowing with summer reads for my favorite season of the year. As always, I'm scouring the Faith-Based, Self-Help, Professional Creatives, and Life-Loving reads for my personal list:<br />
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<li>And switching direction slightly, ole Dad sent this one my way for a little research I'm doing: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/By-Invitation-Only-Changed-Millions/dp/B00AKQD0HY/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1366831231&sr=8-2&keywords=gilt" target="_blank">By Invitation Only: How We Built Gilt and Changed the Way Millions Shopped</a>. A story of the entrepreneurs that got creative and made their dream a career. Sign me up<i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"> (no pun intended)</span></i>.</li>
<li>I'm currently flipping through <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Blog-Inc-Blogging-Passion-Community/dp/1452107203/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1366831423&sr=8-1&keywords=Blog+inc" target="_blank">Blog, Inc</a>. Written by the creator of <a href="http://ohjoy.blogs.com/" target="_blank">Oh Joy!</a>, Joy Cho outlines what takes a successful blog from musings to must-read. The first few chapters are hardly worth a skim if you've already created an online space, but the real good stuff arises towards the end.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Monkey-Mind-A-Memoir-Anxiety/dp/1439177317/ref=tmm_pap_title_0" target="_blank">Monkey Mind: A Memoir of Anxiety</a>. I realize this seems like a strange addition to the list. But after reading a few reviews on it in different places, I found myself relating to the author a bit. Daniel Smith gives a super personal account of his struggle with anxiety and how the smallest decisions "between BBQ sauce or ketchup" caused anxiety to take over—but how he finally conquered his own fears and broke away. I admit to going through a stage in life recently where I was so terrified of making the wrong decision that my mind would freeze and I couldn't absorb anything around me—life would minimize to white noise. Monkey Mind is the tale of a sometimes crippling disease told in a comical way and the smallest steps the author took to overcome.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Tout-Sweet-Hanging-Heels-France/dp/1402261187/ref=pd_cart_recs20" target="_blank">Tout Sweet: Hanging Up My High Heels for a New Life in France</a>. Sometimes you need a good lighthearted beach/pool read, and most know that I have an affinity for the French lifestyle. Enter this book that just so happens to merge the two. The true story of fashion editor Karen Wheeler, who leaves London when her boyfriend leaves her and hangs up her Manolos for a French cottage in rural central-western France. Pour me a class of champagne with this read, s'il vous plait. </li>
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From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-32742667938706978862013-04-23T11:00:00.000-05:002013-04-23T11:00:02.631-05:00Tuesday Treats: Summer InspirationY'all. April is almost over.<b> Almost</b>.<b> Over</b>. How does this happen so quickly?<br />
I've noticed that I've been pinning lots of summery things these days with no general intention in mind. One thing I love most about Pinterest is that you can literally look back and see your moods from any given week. And it seems as if lately I've been in a summer state of mind. Suntans. Bright skies. Easy living. And I thought I'd share that state of mind with you today for your <b>Tuesday Treats</b>:<br />
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Come see me at the beach.<br />
<i>Daily gratitude: Bright eyes, bright skies, bright hearts-- my favorite things.</i><br />
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From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-34532395591589362842013-04-22T11:00:00.000-05:002013-04-22T11:00:06.365-05:00Monday Mantra + Non-ConformistA new week, <i>again</i>. The one thing I can admit to being partial to about Mondays is the new possibility they bring. It's similar to the reason I love the New Years holiday, or used to get excited about the first day of school.<br />
New means shiny and infinite possibilities.<br />
Something new I've discovered about myself this year is that I'm a non-conformist. Which, really, is quite interesting and quite frankly a relief because I always had this nagging feeling that I was disguising a personality far more mainstream and typical than most would give me credit for. I once had a picture for how my life would go after college: girl meets boy, girl gets job, girl becomes financially comfortable independently, girl gets married, girl is happy. End scene.<br />
Except that I got so bored with that script once it started evolving that I had to cancel those plans almost immediately.<i> Who woulda thought</i>?<br />
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And as it was all happening, I wasn't<b> sure</b> it was because I couldn't conform to this life plan set out before me-- I just knew it didn't<i> feel </i>right. As these changes happened, what began to bud this spring was an entrepreneurial, zealous spirit for life that would explain why I have such issues conforming. One that is a lot more comfortable with the unknown because its confident in a <i>general</i> right direction than one with a to-do list for life<span style="font-size: x-small;"><i> (which will make my mom infinitely happy)</i></span>. I've discovered that my planning for life has become a little more unconventional than I believe what I thought myself capable. And I actually adore that. I've realized that being good to myself is far more important than doing the things that I thought I "should" do. That love and faith and passion matter more than a career. That there are no ten-step plans for figuring out what your life's mission is-- and really, what if the only mission you're put here for is to love and be the best you can be and spread your joy as far and wide as it will reach and find a career that helps do that? Because that life plan sounds like one I could commit to.<br />
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From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-30128728398957928462013-04-19T15:22:00.003-05:002013-04-19T15:22:33.923-05:00Happy {Sunshine on the Beach} WeekendI'm welcoming the weekend with rather dreary skies, but perking up considerably looking at the cloudless beach weekend the weather channel has on the agenda. <i>Don't mind if I do.</i><br />
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I don't have much to report about this week. It's been rather slow but sometimes those sorts are needed. This weekend, though, is the first in quite some time I'll have lounging on the beach doing nothing— I foresee lots of reading and mimosas in my immediate future, but with special company in town to entertain I know they'll be no shortage of plans. Until then, your weekend reading for my <b>Friday Finds</b>:<br />
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<li>I'm really into <a href="http://thebeautydepartment.com/2013/04/what-does-each-curling-iron-do/" target="_blank">this post via The Beauty Department</a> that taught me what size curling iron to use for which type curls. I can't tell you the number of times I've been disappointed with my outcome simply do to the iron. This site is just where it's at in terms of beauty.</li>
<li>I'm always getting caught eyeing knockout closets, so I loved <a href="http://theeffortlesschic.com/2013/the-home/spring-closet-cleaning/" target="_blank">this advice via The Effortless Chic</a> on how to use your closet space to max potential. Now, someone give me a walk-in....</li>
<li>First of all, how much do I love Brian Atwood? Second of all, how much did I love this <a href="http://www.thecoveteur.com/brian_atwood" target="_blank">Brian Atwood feature on The Coveteur</a>? That's right—<b>a lot.</b></li>
<li>Since I'm all healthy and stuff (<b>HA</b>) I've been obsessed with <a href="http://fitnessista.com/" target="_blank">The Fitnessista</a>. She has the best clean eating + workout tips + style reviews out there, with a precious personality to match. And perk—her behind-the-scenes fam is adorable. Check her out. </li>
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And that wraps the week, friends. Have a lovely one!<br />
<i>Daily gratitude: Weekend visitors and reading lists.</i><br />
<i>xoxo</i>From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-85252721234077362752013-04-18T12:51:00.001-05:002013-04-18T12:51:54.185-05:00Life Chronicles: Celebrating ShelleyThis past Saturday, some girlfriends and I got together to celebrate this mama-to-be.<br />
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Shelley's soul is as a bright as her sweet smile so we were thrilled to come together to host what was our group's first baby show. <b>Ever</b>. And in doing so, we kept things simple. The breathtaking WaterColor home we threw the shower in, overlooking the lake and flooded with light from the screened in porches and windows, needed minimal decor—some simple, hydrangea-rich arrangements and lilies were all the accents needed throughout the home.<br />
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The menu was put together by another close friend who does personal catering on the side, and included everything from cheese grits, quiches, and shrimp cups to colorful fruit skewers and cheese plates. And let's not forget the mimosa bar. Or these adorable Baby Belen cupcakes, complete with the white chocolate Bs.<br />
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Just look at those little baby feet.<br />
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As guests left after a few hours of celebrating and champagne, we made sure they had sweet treats wrapped in simple wax paper and baking twine to take with them for their day.<br />
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Then we got a big surprise this week—it looks like Baby Belen is so anxious to meet her mom, she may just arrive this weekend! Luckily sweet Shelley got enough baby girl attire to to make sure she's dressed to a tee since she'll be arriving almost a month early.<br />
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We love you Baby Belen <i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">(and you, too Shel)</span></i>. Your aunts can't wait to meet you!<br />
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<i>Daily gratitude: Healthy Shelley and bright blessings.</i><br />
<i>xoxo</i>From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-82771218453139330622013-04-17T11:41:00.001-05:002013-04-17T11:41:30.856-05:00Soul ShineToday's post will put my right back up on my soapbox.<br />
The first thing I saw this morning was this video my sister posted about becoming especially emotional about.<br />
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And by darn it, I found myself tearing up, too. <i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">(Ok, no surprise there.)</span></i><br />
I wrote long ago about being enough. It's been a sensitive topic for a long time for me—false expectations, realistic goals, perceptions of oneself and how it's all comparable. Then, when I watched that little video above on <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/04/15/doves-real-beauty-sketches-ad-campaign-video_n_3088071.html?utm_hp_ref=fb&src=sp&comm_ref=false#slide=2341634" target="_blank">Dove's new campaign</a>, I was reminded yet again that<i> we girls have it tough</i>.<br />
<b>We are, in fact, oftentimes our own worst enemies.</b><br />
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Women are, as a whole, exceptionally hard on ourselves—and incredibly so when it comes to our appearance. While I'm not saying that guys don't deal with similar issues, I'm willing to bet it has a lot more to do with masculinity, of which I can't relate to. The problem here is that we girls are just so feminine. And we have it especially tough because femininity in society is almost directly related to the way we look— which means that when our appearance doesn't add up to what we deem "ideal," we assign ourselves a lesser value.<br />
Which is so <b>dumb</b>. <i>We do we constantly scrutinize our appearance</i>?<br />
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<i>I wish my cheekbones were higher, my thighs were thinner, my hair was thicker, my legs were longer, my boobs were bigger, my lips were fuller. —quoted, Ainsley.</i><br />
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<b>What? </b>I am a guilty guilty guilty party in scrutinizing myself, fixing myself, covering up my flaws and hoping no one notices. Seeing a girl with beautiful, full lips and noting how thin mine are. Noticing someone's legs for days and hiding my short ones underneath the table. But I know for a fact I'm not alone. Because, just like in the video, our self-perception today is so skewed by what we deem ideal that we aren't seeing the true beauty assigned to each of us.<br />
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Self-improvement is a good thing, when expectations are realistic—I love nothing more than a new self-improvement goal. But I'm realizing now that my efforts of "improving myself" are often because I feel as if I'm not standing tall against the societal definition of beauty, and not because I want to improve on the attributes I was uniquely given. We're each made this way <i>intentionally, and that's how we should think of ourselves. </i>Those "wrinkles" at the corner of my eyes are from laughing, and I am thankful for reasons to laugh. Stop desiring to be thinner and start desiring to be stronger. There is a difference in taking care of yourself <i>(what we should be doing, as a gift to ourself)</i> and wishing to change yourself—the ultimate goal being to improve on and take care of what we have... not wish for something different or change it. And I think changing our mindsets to thinking this way not only makes us more at peace, but more beautiful as well. Because above all else, being good to your soul lights up your face and that's where the true beauty is.<br />
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Happy Wednesday, lovely girls.<br />
<i>Daily gratitude: A body that works and soul-sharing.</i><br />
<i>xoxo</i><br />
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From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-36377563016177502432013-04-16T16:06:00.000-05:002013-04-16T16:06:10.976-05:00Tuesday Treats: Top TensWhelp, gals, turns out you don't need me anymore.<br />
Why?<br />
Because today, Layne turned me to <a href="http://www.rankandstyle.com/" target="_blank">Rank & Style</a>. And, well, all we style seekers really need is <i>them</i>.<br />
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Gone are you days of searching searching searching for the perfect <a href="http://www.rankandstyle.com/top-10-list/best-beauty-balms/" target="_blank">BB Cream</a> (Whit, you've already found yours). Or, oh-- you're looking to add<a href="http://www.rankandstyle.com/top-10-list/best-pencil-skirts/" target="_blank"> the perfect pencil skirt </a>to your wardrobe, huh? Rank & Style methodologically, through both geeky computer analytics and tried-and-true testing, compiles Top Ten lists for any shopping topic-- and they explain how <a href="http://www.rankandstyle.com/about/" target="_blank">here</a>. Don't see one you want yet? No prob. Just<a href="http://www.rankandstyle.com/request_list/" target="_blank"> tell them what you're looking for </a>and they'll get to work.<br />
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A few of my own Top Ten's I'd like to see these girls get to work on for my summer style:<br />
1. Top Ten LWD's for Summer<br />
2. Top Ten Volumizing Hair Products (That Don't Leave Your Hair Sticky)<br />
3. Top Ten No-Smudge Coral Lipsticks<br />
4. Top Ten Nude Ankle-Strap Sandals<br />
5. Top Ten Backless Rompers<br />
That's not asking too much-- right? Trust me, check 'em out <a href="http://www.rankandstyle.com/" target="_blank">here</a>.<br />
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<i>Daily gratitude: Faith and forgiveness against all else. And the yummy salad gifted to me for lunch.</i><br />
<i>xoxo</i><br />
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From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-8208866959220739022013-04-15T11:28:00.000-05:002013-04-15T11:28:02.333-05:00Monday Mantra + The SearchOften when I'm selecting my Monday Mantra, I really have no earthly idea what it is I'm looking for.<br />
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I'll scroll through my <a href="http://pinterest.com/ainsleysusan/mantras/" target="_blank">Mantra Pinterest board</a>, my journal, wherever I feel led to look, and just browse and browse and browse all the beautiful words that touch me during my curating throughout the week. And then all of a sudden—there it will be. Words of encouragement, whether to inspire me, or give rest to a weary soul. And that's how I found myself repeating this a few times this morning:<br />
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He is never far, though distance may seem present at times—He is <b>here</b>. He is here when you are weary and tired, content and joyful, sinning, repenting, rejoicing, worshipping. He is here, there, everywhere.<br />
Happy Monday, friends. He is with you.<br />
<i>Daily gratitude: Through good and bad, He is with me.</i><br />
<i>xoxo</i>From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-69054048437480160902013-04-12T12:45:00.003-05:002013-04-12T12:45:15.815-05:00Finally {Exhale} FridayFriday.<br />
{Exhale}<br />
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There's some big stuff going down this weekend, turns out. Will you keep this chicken wimp in your thoughts and prayers?<br />
Until then, a few lovely things that have distracted me:<br />
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<li>Absolutely swept away by<a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471294838410/" target="_blank"> this definition</a>.</li>
<li>And can't quite take my eyes away from <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471294835600/" target="_blank">this piece</a>.</li>
<li>And will someone <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471294842895/" target="_blank">hang this in my closet</a> asap? Seriously...</li>
<li>Then I <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EKTx5on6U8&feature=youtu.be" target="_blank">watched this </a>to make my apparel obsession seem not so severe.</li>
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Hope this weekend is fill with peace and plans!<br />
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<i>Daily gratitude: grace.</i><br />
<i>xoxo</i>From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-61725066647573355152013-04-11T15:44:00.000-05:002013-04-11T15:45:50.635-05:00Pack it UpYesterday I was asked what I normally pack in my picnic basket. What may seem like an odd question is surprisingly not after living at the beach for a few years.<br />
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What's better than a picnic, really? A simple little joy, I admit to being the first to throw the option on the table during a gorgeous weekend. Throwing our favorite, fast eats in the basket and filling the cooler with refreshing treats is an instinct for a long, lazy day in the sun and something we became quite good at, quite quickly. For the perfect picnic, forget the fuss. I like options that don't require extensive serving or even the use of forks<i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"> (don't tell my mom)</span></i>. Finger-foods and scoop-able dips are the easiest options when the sand or grass is your seat—but don't forget your blanket to keep both at bay.<br />
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<li>This<a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471294834958/" target="_blank"> skinny poolside dip</a> is A. Easy B. Delicious C. So simple to make, but everyone will think you spent tons of time on it. "Oh this ole recipe..."Don't forget your crackers for dipping.</li>
<li>In addition to a cooler of beer, a portable pre-made pitcher of <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471294766888/" target="_blank">these strawberry mimosas</a> are a simple drink that friends will have you pouring heavy.</li>
<li>More of a vodka girl? <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471294282748/" target="_blank">Vodka + lemonade frozen in plastic bags </a>makes for a portable, adult Capri Sun!</li>
<li>Take one grape tomato, slice in half and scoop out the inside. Insert one fresh mozzarella ball. Spear them, and spin in basil flakes. Voila- <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471294384394/" target="_blank">these adorable caprese pops</a> perfect for packing.</li>
<li>For another simple snack, grab a few pears at the grocery store. Slice them, then spread a delicious goat cheese<i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"> (my favorite!) </span></i>along the thicker side. Sprinkle with cranberries for <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471293551069/" target="_blank">this delicious, savory snack</a>.</li>
<li>What would a picnic be without chicken salad? That's right, nothing. Which is why <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471293140342/" target="_blank">this recipe </a>is worthy whipping up for any picnic. And while it's made with greek yogurt, it doesn't compromise the taste <b><u>or</u> </b>your bikini body after lunch. Spread with crackers or celery to make it plate-free.</li>
<li>And any picnic would be incomplete without my favorite part—the cheese plate. Make sure you're arranging the perfect one <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471294108989/" target="_blank">here</a>. </li>
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What did I forget? I'm hoping to pack one of these up next week and pay my tribute to these sunny skies!<br />
<i>Daily gratitude: Being wrong and humbled by Grace.</i><br />
<i>xoxo</i><br />
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From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-2392562487742764282013-04-10T12:30:00.004-05:002013-04-10T12:30:38.390-05:00Fresh-Faced: Fave Drugstore FindsAfter<a href="http://fromainsleywithlove.blogspot.com/2013/04/pamper-and-primp-warm-weather-ready.html" target="_blank"> last week's makeup fetish post</a>, I got a few emails from you gals asking if I'd found any brag-worthy products lately during my experimenting to recommend. And actually, the answer is yes-- some I've been so impressed with that I thought I'd share today because you can find them as absolute steals in your local drugstore but they'll make you feel as if you shelled out the big bucks in beauty.<br />
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<a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0046797WK/ref=asc_df_B0046797WK2465636?smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER&tag=pg-745-86-20&linkCode=asn&creative=395097&creativeASIN=B0046797WK" target="_blank">Maybelline One-by-One Volume Express</a>: I swear by this mascara. So much so that if where I'm shopping is out, I will leave and go somewhere else. I admit to having naturally long lashes, but even more the reason to be a picky mascara shopper for something that lengthens and plumps without the spidery clumps. And when people ask me how I get my lashes so long, I have to give partial credit to this partner-in-crime. Let's just say I'm in a super-committed relationship with this mascara.<br />
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<a href="http://www.lorealparisusa.com/en/Brands/Makeup/True-Match.aspx?cid=lorus_rm_Bing_Makeup+B+True+Match+Lumi_True+Match+Lumi&utm_source=bing&utm_medium=cpc&utm_term=Brand-Makeup" target="_blank">L'Oreal True Match</a>: My friend Layne, a true makeup expert, recommended this foundation to me a few weeks back because it had passed her test. So, I knew it was worth a try when my more expensive Smashbox foundation ran dry. I purchased the<a href="http://www.lorealparisusa.com/en/Products/Makeup/Face/Foundation/True-Match-Lumi-Healthy-Luminous.aspx?shade=Nude-Beige" target="_blank"> Lumi Healthy Luminous foundation</a> that actually works to improve your complexion and make your skin glow, with the compatible color in the<a href="http://www.lorealparisusa.com/en/Products/Makeup/Face/Foundation/True-Match-Super-Blendable-Compact-Makeup.aspx?shade=Sun-Beige-W6" target="_blank"> Super-Blendable powder compact</a>, which has an SPF and a "flawless finish." Not only am I smitten with how lightweight the duo feels, but my skin appears glowy while hiding imperfections without being cakey.This duo is a keeper for sure.<br />
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<a href="http://www.maybelline.com/Products/Lip-Makeup/Lip-Gloss/Color-Sensational-High-Shine-Lip-Gloss.aspx#shadedetails" target="_blank">Color Sensational High Shine lip gloss in Electric Shock</a>: Hello, new fave gloss. I grabbed this bright pink option as an impulse buy to liven up a black cocktail glass last weekend and boy, am I glad I did. This gloss is the perfect middle ground between a sheer gloss and lipstick. The color consistency is pretty saturated so you can definitely tell what color you are wearing, but it shines for days and days. My "electric shock" selection has proven to be pretty versatile and definitely gives you a pretty, girly pout.<br />
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<a href="http://www.covergirl.com/beauty-products/nail-polish/outlast-stay-brilliant-nail-gloss" target="_blank">Covergirl Outlast Stay Brilliant Nail Gloss in Constant Candy</a>: I'm a pretty tried-and-true OPI wearer, but as I was in my rush to get out of town last Friday, I swiped this color last minute with the above gloss for a neutral but pretty nail. Nevermind the fact that I just may have painted a double coat on my nails while stuck in a traffic jam on my way, this polish is legit. The color was the prettiest, pearliest pink and has a high shine as opposed to a more matte-like finish. But the real credibility goes to the fact that it <b>did. not. chip</b>. As a girl that is legendary for chipping her manicure an hour after having it, I'm looking at my <b>still unchipped nails</b> right now in disbelief.<br />
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<a href="http://www.target.com/p/l-oreal-advanced-haircare-smooth-intense-frizz-taming-serum/-/A-14337601#prodSlot=medium_1_3" target="_blank">L'Oreal Advanced Hair Care Smooth Intens</a>e: Sporting my new, short Olivia P. inspired 'do means long gone are the days of spending half an hour on my hair. Now, when I'm not wearing some casual curling iron waves, I can really just dry my hair and run some of this hair oil on the ends for a sleek look out the door in less than ten minutes! I'm super hesitant towards hair oils because greasy hair is a paranoia of mine<span style="font-size: x-small;"><i> (as in, I wash my hair every day)</i></span>. This oil is super light weight and only takes the smallest of dallops across the ends to make your hair looks like it has been blown out or heat-straightened smooth. Frizz be gone, take that humidity.<br />
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Let me know what you think!<br />
<i>Daily gratitude:</i> <i>Good-deed surprises like the free massage gift certificate + free samples given to me by some friendly fellas from Rosemary Beach's Aveda salon when I least expected it.</i><br />
<i>xoxo</i>From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-234754322585300802013-04-08T14:46:00.001-05:002013-04-08T14:48:01.338-05:00Monday MantraWell that was <b>quite</b> the weekend, ladies and gents.<br />
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And living life joyfully on the fly continued this weekend. I hopped into town, <i>literally</i>, an hour before the rehearsal dinner and did not stop running from that moment on-- to the rehearsal dinner, to the after-party, to a sweet wedding shower for another dear friend, to a late lunch date, a quick break to get ready for the wedding, then off to the ceremony <span style="font-size: x-small;"><i>(complete with a full orchestra) </i></span>and the grand finale reception <span style="font-size: x-small;"><i>(featuring the same band that played at George W's daughter's wedding</i></span>). We ate, drank, and twirled merrily to Motown on the dance floor among many of my favorite people. But somehow, my favorite moment of the entire time was the early Sunday morning "breakfast party" spent lazily among fifteen or so of my closest girls and guys-- piled up on top of one another, in pajamas eating pancakes, telling stories of the old life and the new life and loving and missing each other all at the same time.<br />
And when I returned to work today, a customer told me my eyes were brighter. It's surely the sign of a full heart.<br />
Changing gears, <i>sort of</i>, it saddened me to hear of the passing of Lilly Pulitzer today. Her prints and love of color were an influencing factor in developing my sense of style at an early age. So when I ran across this quote, I knew it would describe nicely the light heart I've been sporting as of late:<br />
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Here's to a week of keeping summertime in your heart and a smile on that face.<br />
<i>Daily gratitude: reasons for light hearts and bright eyes</i><br />
<i>xoxo</i><br />
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From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-36209308330991856732013-04-05T11:44:00.004-05:002013-04-05T11:44:57.124-05:00Happy {On the Run} WeekendDashing in ever so quickly this morning as I sprint out of town for another weekend packed full of celebratory events, fun, and many of my best friends.<br />
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I feel like I've been living life on the fly these days, but it seems<i> different</i> this time. Maybe because it's chock full of little joys and I'm able to live a bit differently on my own terms. Nonetheless, this spring is shaping up to be quite the long-term R&R I ordered.<br />
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Pardon me for skipping my Friday Finds of good reads from the week- I'll be sure to include on Monday.<br />
Until then, happy weekend dear friends!<br />
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<i>Daily gratitude: road trips and reunions.</i><br />
<i>xoxo</i><br />
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<br />From Ainsley, with lovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15843717671531247481noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7665497813705375481.post-12150616671128484932013-04-04T12:42:00.004-05:002013-04-04T12:50:36.208-05:00Pamper and Primp: Warm Weather ReadyWe're about to get full-disclosure here, girlfriends. Boys <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>(or Dad, really)</i></span>, turn away.<br />
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For some reasons, when the temps warm up and the clouds roll away to those sunny blue skies, I start taking better care of myself—physically. Maybe it's that fresh new feeling or perhaps it's the simple fact that we gals do, <i>actually</i>, wear less clothes, I become an expert groomer. We can't lie to ourselves. You know that in chilly December you just may let your toes go unpainted a few weeks or perhaps you don't shave your legs everyday. But April means bikinis and sundresses and tans and life, in general, just becomes a little prettier. A few things I've been trying out and adding to my list for a certain summer <i>je ne sais quoi</i> look:<br />
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<li><a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471294800871/" target="_blank">These eyes</a>: I mean, I'm going to Sephora tonight to make these bright-eyed lookers happen. </li>
<li>Seemingly simple tutorial means big points in my book, as well. Bat those eyes away, girls.</li>
<li>That summer humidity can wreak havoc on the tresses, but <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471294787045/" target="_blank">this simple knot </a>is a good alternative to a put-together look. And while I realize that smearing an <a href="http://thebeautydepartment.com/2013/03/kitchen-beautician-4/" target="_blank">avacado-based DIY hair moisturizer </a>in your hair may seem a little icky, you'll be thanking me for introducing you to it when you're undoing all the drying damage the summer sun can do to your lock, giving you silky, flip-worthy hair.</li>
<li>It's summer and I really don't care <i>what</i> you say, you need to clean up those feet after a winter of sporting sky-high heels and booties. So, take my advice and<a href="http://totallyloveit.com/treating-cracked-heels-and-blackened-feet/" target="_blank"> try this little trick here</a>—I was amazed at the smoothing results and now I can proudly prop my feet up for a pedicure or massage <i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">(the chances of the latter happening being slim to none)</span></i>.</li>
<li>I am <a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/271060471294766855/" target="_blank">OB-sessed with this lip</a>. Do any of you budding making aficionados out there know what my best bet for matching would be? And speaking of lips, <a href="http://www.julieannart.com/2012/11/diy-grapefruit-sugar-lip-scrub.html" target="_blank">this sugar lib scrub</a> I am dying to try for a perfectly smooth pout.</li>
<li>Last, but not least, a little tip I just was introduced to that may or may not be TMI but I think you'll thank me: apply a little deo to your bikini line after a touch up to prevent bumps or irritation. Works like a charm!</li>
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Got any secrets you use when pampering yourself for the long sunny days? I'd love to hear!</div>
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<i>Daily gratitude: moments alone to take care of yourself.</i></div>
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<i>xoxo</i></div>
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